Bisexuality - Most people use the term “sexual orientation” to refer to sexual feelings. Heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual is a part of what people are. (Identity)

I prefer to use the term “sexual orientation” to describe behavior rather than identity or feelings.

I enjoy having sex with men and women. HOWEVER I would not like to be romantically or emotionally involved with a woman. I still prefer to have a man taking care of me.

I cannot see myself living with a woman as my better half.

So, in terms if my identity, I know I am 100% heterosexual but I thoroughly enjoy having sex with women.

Can you see the difference?

I went through the same mental torture that many women go through. I was raised in a very conservative family and OBVIOUSLY homosexual behavior was frown upon.

As I mentioned earlier, I fantasized about having sex with men and women but I suppressed my homosexual feelings because of fear of being ridiculed, being treated differently or worse… because of being afraid of becoming a lesbian! (as if that were a bad thing… lol!)

Fortunately I figured out that feelings, behavior and identity are completely separate from one another.

You see, another HUGE misconception most people (both men and women) have is that LOVE (a feeling) and SEX (an act or behavior) cannot (or should not) be separated.

If you think this way, you are simply setting yourself for failure and you WILL miss out BIG TIME in one of the greatest gifts God gave us: SEX

SEX is an ACT between 2 or more people

LOVE is an EMOTION 2 or more people feel between each other

Having sex as an act of love is a very beautiful thing… but so is having sex for the sake of pleasure!

DRILL IT IN YOUR HEAD: Having Sex Is Good For You!

There is nothing dirty, there is nothing impure, there is nothing immoral, there is nothing wrong with having sex for the sake of pleasure. You do not need to be in love with a person to have a great time in bed!

This might sound very masculine but it’s true!

Ask most guys: they can have sex with a different woman every night and be ok with it.

Now, I am not telling you to become a slut and start sleeping around with every Tom, Dick or Harry. All I want is that you understand that it is actually possible to separate feelings from acts.

Now, why is this important?

Simple, if you can really see through this “smoke screen” you’ll see that it is actually possible to be 100% heterosexual in feelings but happily enjoy homosexual behavior!

In other words, you could be in love with a man and also enjoy having sex with women!

And even better… why not enjoy a man and a woman sexually at the same time?

What a Cool Concept!

So, answering the question on the title of this chapter: Are ALL Women Bisexual?

My answer is: ALL women have the potential of enjoying sex with men and women without having to wear a label.

For more great information go here: All Women Are Bisexual